Our friends' son graduated this weekend from our church's high school. It was a different ceremony than most. The graduating class had a lot of personality and they showed it with their decorated caps and small adaptations to their simple strut across the stage. Each student seemed to be unique in their own skin. The Principal, who called their names, had polled their teachers about what each graduate was known for. Studious, Hilarious, Calm, Pensive, Inclusive, etc.   Each student stood at the bottom of the stairs awaiting their name to be called. And I'm sure, for the first time, they got to hear (from the teachers' vantage point) what their reputation is. I'm not sure if I would have wanted to hear what I...